True Relationship.

I was watching a reality show called "Big Brother Africa" and there was just a scenario that I could not get out of my head. Why would a guy lead a girl on to believe that he liked her when he actually did not? Imagine this guy saying "we were just friends". A girl lays on your cheat, plays with you, cuddles with you, kisses you, spends the better time of her day with you and at the end pf the day you say you didn't like her "like that" and you were just friends! I mean, common guys, who does that?

Listen, if you don't like a girl you need to tell her upfront what your true intentions are (if any) towards her and you don't let her get clsoe enough to be touching consistently. It makes absolutely no sense in just wasting a girl's time only to let her go when another girl catches your fancy. I'm mainly focused on girls cause we are the ones that tend to throw ourselves at men and it disgusts me when a see a woman, a true woman do that to herself.

Friends? Really?

Over my past few years on earth, I can proudly say that I've made my own share of friends, enemies and even "frenemies"! But one thing that I've come to realize is that to put complete trust in a "man"- {Woman or Man} is the greatest mistake a person can ever make. Even the bible says that the "....arms of flesh will fail you...." and the best thing to do is just to put your trust in God!

It gets me worked up a little bit when I see "friends" betray one another. Mind you, I have friends that I love dearly and I know they feel the same way about me but you'll never know a true friend until your friendship has been tested. I'm watching a reality show right now and to see the way people betray each other in each's absence is just disgusting!

My point in this article, if you've not gotten it by now is that it pays to stay through to your friends -  anyone you call your friend deserves you loyalty and respect, not because of them but because of you! When we stay through to the ones that love us and truly care for us we'll be at rest ourselves and you'll be able to say here are my hands as white as snow and I have nothing to hide. At one time or the other, we'll all have to trust someone other than God and hope that they come through for us, how would you feel if you were let down? So why should you let that person down?
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